Passive Aggressive Attachment

What is a passive aggressive attachment? Passive aggressive behavior from a husband is not a reaction to the present wife or the present relationship; rather, it is a learned model of interpersonal attachment, wired in a person's brain early in … [Read more...]

Time to raise your inner child?

If no one signed up to raise your inner child, it's time to do it yourself... Almost all our couple fights, here and now, are eerie reincarnations of childhood dramas of abandonment, lack of love, missing apppreciation...that recurr over and over … [Read more...]

Emotional needs rooted in intimacy

This article is part 1 of a series of 3 articles from our upcoming book, “ Escaping The Sexless Marriage: A Practical Manual to Bring Back Intimacy and Trust into a Passive Aggressive Marriage"   Attachment and the emotional bonds we establish as … [Read more...]

Living with a too controlling partner? Want a solution?

Tired of living with a controlling partner? This morning a delightful young woman taking care of my broken cell phone confided that she was going through a rough patch, "with my fiancee controlling everything I do...he accuses me of infidelity each … [Read more...]

New Year’s resolutions for the love-starved wife

New Year's resolutions for the love-starved wife Watching this end of year milestone, it's easy to look back and ask: where am I, in my life story? what has this last year taught me? Why do I feel so behind, perhaps neglected or not loved? The view … [Read more...]