Some times, it’s just all out war at home…

Thinking on different styles of doing conflict, I came across this message from one of the visitors of AskNora: When I was asking about her relationship with her husband, she said: "With my ex? It was war at home. He thought he could wear me down … [Read more...]

Are you hiding under a “nice person” mask?

Are you presenting a “nice person” image of yourself to avoid all confrontations, but keep feeling fake or left out? Is emotional damage now hidden in your present life? As a child you always wanted to be accepted, and you learned some tricks that … [Read more...]

Passive aggression and home duties

  Is your husband using passive aggression to avoid house chores? In a normal marriage, there is always going on a healthy negotiation about shared tasks, sometimes described as “marital division of labor.” Both can agree in a simple … [Read more...]

New Year’s resolutions for the love-starved wife

New Year's resolutions for the love-starved wife Watching this end of year milestone, it's easy to look back and ask: where am I, in my life story? what has this last year taught me? Why do I feel so behind, perhaps neglected or not loved? The view … [Read more...]

Three steps to be happier now

The 3 Steps to be Happier Now 1.- Face your issues. Avoiding your conflicts and inner struggles merely allows them to continue and to grow. Few issues go away on their own. Facing your weaknesses and struggles fuels your strength, no matter how … [Read more...]