Is Your Partner Emotionally Unavailable ?

If you have an emotionally unavailable spouse, does him make you feel starved?    We connect with others in this life using the attachment models we learned in our families. So, perhaps when you were growing up, you could marvel at the … [Read more...]

Seeing Eye to Eye With Your Passive Aggressive Husband

  Although it may seem that your passive aggressive husband can hurt you by denying you big things (like a conversation, sex, a hug, or other connections), new studies are showing that our desire to be connected to others can ride on … [Read more...]

From a wider perspective, this marital control game is so clear!

Perhaps because it's summer, I can see clearly the marital control game going on? Just driving around when a thought exploded in my brain: are we all playing this universal game? Let me explain the "control game," when both sides push and pull, but … [Read more...]

Too many tech toys, and no talk?

Too much technology around, and no talk? Remember the good old personal fights of yesterday? We used any opportunity for expressing ourselves with some shouting and strong words, when frustrated and or/disappointed.  Don't take me wrong, fighting … [Read more...]

Can You Stop His Denial?

 (If you don't know what this is here is help)A desperate wife sent this comic and serious request for help...she copied for me the beginning of a letter to her husband:"I was watching TV and the , and some people were using those strange … [Read more...]