How passive aggressive resistance to growth destroys any remaining love

Sometimes married women write to me asking for advice for desperate situations... Hubby's silence and lack of decision-making drives them into a wall. There is a difference between doing silence as a unique way of dealing with a challenging … [Read more...]

How to escape an abusive relationship, doing nothing

Can you escape an abusive relationship by playing dead? From lots of articles and books that fill my shelves and cover my desk, this is the most original approach to releasing an abusive relationship. Alex Myles, explains why and how she had to … [Read more...]

What if you had an early warning about his lack of emotional response?

Would you like to know from the start if your chosen one grew up with lack of emotional response? I always imagine how my life would have been if someone had sent me a disclaimer, some timely information; some deep and true revelation about the … [Read more...]

Some times, it’s just all out war at home…

Thinking on different styles of doing conflict, I came across this message from one of the visitors of AskNora: When I was asking about her relationship with her husband, she said: "With my ex? It was war at home. He thought he could wear me down … [Read more...]

Can you have intimacy with respect?

┬áHaving intimacy with respect means that you can trust the other person not to hurt you We are all people in development, with our own issues that can sometimes hurt others...not out of malice, but ignorance and lack of skills at containing each … [Read more...]