Emotional isolation and marriage don’t go together

This week I received several calls, one from such a distance place as Australia, all coming from women in their 50-60s that were asking a similar question...What happened to my life, that I ended up with so much emotional isolation from my husband? … [Read more...]

Why is she so upset with me?

Having her so upset with you is the wrong strategy! According to psychology research, we all use defense mechanisms...they are those mental tricks that are so handy to protect us from unwanted events...so we can deny, forget them, turn them upside … [Read more...]

Hidden roots of passive aggressive anger

The roots of passive aggressive anger are hidden in our early childhood. I tend to do a lot of internet research...perhaps too much. Of my results, I find that I can agree with very little of what is posted out there. Why is this? because most of … [Read more...]

Learning how to love and connect, again?

All this year, working on some issues about how to love and connect, we have developed a line of thinking that goes like this: We all have different humans needs, modulated in the shapes that our attachment provided for us. We all have needs for … [Read more...]

Why he has to do such nasty behavior?

Do you find yourself the target of nasty behavior? After having presented several angles of the passive aggressive behavior hurting so many marriages, we want to answer the deep "Why does he behave in this way? question.... Perhaps we need to … [Read more...]