Is Your Love Story Rooted in Your Attachment Style?
How much our present love is rooted in an old attachment style? When we fall in love, the influence of this powerful emotion in us makes our perception to expand. Feeling secure and trusting, we tell each other everything; and our frustrations and negative experiences go away. We feel alive, smarter, sexier, and expansive to […]
Living with a too controlling partner? Want a solution?
Tired of living with a controlling partner? This morning a delightful young woman taking care of my broken cell phone confided that she was going through a rough patch, “with my fiancee controlling everything I do…he accuses me of infidelity each time I need to leave for work…and he knows we need my income!” Admiring […]
Can I count with your help? Are you my secure base?
Do you see me? do you love the things I love? We do all the time little requests for connection from/to each other. The usual “how do you do?” is an opening for a conversation that even when it does not happen, has the possibility installed there. And it is beneficial the same: we tell […]